How to be a woman?

From time immemorial a woman was assigned many obligations. Sometimes she had to combine even the most opposite qualities of character in order to remain at the same time both a strong attractive person and the wife who was submissive to her husband, the keeper of the hearth.

So what should a modern woman be?


Each era dictates its views on how a real woman should look. For example, at one time lush forms were considered more preferable, and after that very thin women appeared in the “trend”. Consider recommendations for the modern woman.

  • To be in shape, but she does not need to be too thin. A taut abdomen and elastic buttocks, a thin waist - just such a lady many men want to see beside themselves.
  • Take care of yourself. As before, the representatives of the stronger sex highly appreciate beautiful hair, healthy smooth skin, neat manicure and pedicure in ladies.
  • Be able to correctly use decorative cosmetics. And men today are more likely to prefer natural makeup.Too bright colors, as well as the sharp aroma of perfume, are quite aggressive and often simply repel men.
  • Dressing feminine, sexy. At the same time, men, although they like outspoken outfits, nevertheless, they prefer that women show them face-to-face during intercourse. In public, the representatives of the stronger sex want to see their woman dressed with taste, elegantly, elegantly and intriguingly, but not provocatively.


When thinking about how to be a woman worthy of admiration and imitation, pay as much attention as possible to cultivating relevant features in yourself:

  • Femininity. It is manifested in the elegance of the gait and the ability to look good, dress elegantly, in the coquettishness and softness of character, the elusive tenderness in movements, facial expressions, words.
  • Restraint. A real woman will not make scandals. She will be able to keep silent at the right time, forgive a grudge, or at least express her thoughts and feelings tactfully.
  • Love and admiration towards her man. Every man dreams of such a companion of life, which would recognize his authority, believe in him, trust him, feel protection and strength in him.
  • Ease.A woman who is able to make any relationship, make communication relaxed, joyful, always has many fans and friends.
  • Thrift. This includes the ability to conduct all household chores well and quickly, and the skill to welcome guests, and the art of competently allocating the family budget.
  • Belief in yourself, love for yourself. These are very important qualities that in many respects determine the attitude towards people around them. If you love and respect yourself, are confident in your own strength, then your environment will treat you the same way.
  • To be weak, sometimes capricious. A real woman can occasionally indulge in such behavior. In the end, Caesar - Caesar. In other words, provide an opportunity for men to demonstrate their strength and enterprise. Let them solve your problems and pamper you.
  • Sociability. Make new acquaintances, flirt, be relaxed.
  • To be able to give in intimate relationships what your partner needs.
  • Independence. Never show a man that you depend on him, you cannot do without him. It will make you a sacrifice of love.Always honestly and openly talk about your feelings towards your partner, but at the same time let's understand that you feel great without him.
  • Unpredictability, mystery. Surprise new hairstyles, outfits, actions. Never disclose your soul, temper to the end to others and especially your beloved man - learn to answer direct questions about you with meaningful pauses, accompanying them with a playful smile. Just do not go too far - yet let the partner periodically find out something new about you.

How to always be a real woman

Turmoil of days, difficulties in life often knock us off track. We, like squirrels in a wheel, are gaining momentum to meet new obstacles, forgetting to think and take care of ourselves. But it is so important in any situation to remain a woman - the one whose image we described above. What to do?

  • Take the obligatory rule to give yourself care at least 30-60 minutes a day. It does not matter what time of the day it will be - the main thing is that the whole family at this moment will leave you alone with understanding with understanding. At such moments you can make nourishing face masks and hair, take a bath with oils, etc.In general, do what is necessary to maintain your youth and attractiveness.
  • Another 30-60 minutes to do the hobby. After all, as you remember, a real woman appreciates her own independence very much. You must have something in which you will realize your creative potential, something in which you will rest your soul. This may be reading books, listening to music, drawing, dancing, playing sports, handicrafts, watching some programs, etc.
  • Be sure to allocate funds from the family budget for the purchase of things you need. This may be cosmetics, new underwear, jewelry, etc. Just postpone a small amount each week, and then at the end of the month you will be able to afford the desired purchase. Remember that, saving on yourself, you will very soon cease to be attractive to your man and to yourself. Later this can lead to depression, difficulties in love relationships.
  • At least occasionally look through glossy women's magazines, see programs about fashion and style. It may not be too reflected in your appearance, but then you will constantly have an example to follow before your eyes - stylish, beautiful, elegant, elegant women. It will help you remember who you are.
  • Do not allow yourself behavior, words, deeds that could damage your perception of the ideal woman. Do so that you can be proud of yourself. This is probably the most difficult rule, but in many respects it is precisely its observance that determines the final result.